Einstein's Mind

You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it. (Einstein)

When you are trying to make a change or to get out of a difficult situation, you cannot create a solution by thinking with the same mindset that you had in the first place.

Change your mindset or orientation by seeking out advice, just take it in, there is no rush to make a decision on the which is right for you. Increase your inner library of options and read from those books before deciding on a new path to take.